I got my hair cut yesterday (finally) and I feel like I lost about 10 pounds on my head. I usually will get highlights added to hide my grey that I’ve been getting since I was about 22. But I decided to opt out this time, it seems that it’s more and more popular to
Sad Musician Hits High Note at Life’s End
This is from the newspaper article about my biological father Charles E Blackwell death that happened on June 30, 1987 of a morphine overdose. When I heard of his passing I was very sad, not only because he was my biological dad. When I got old enough I wanted to look for him to be
Sliding into the DMs
To slide into the DMs is a reference to sending someone a private message on social media, often to initiate or extend romantic contact, with a suave confidence. It takes a conversation from public to private. The phrase can vary depending on its user, as one can slide into his/her DMs or slide into your/yo
I am Done with This World
I am so done with this world, I am so very disappointed in the human race and what we have become. I want to run away and move to the middle of nowhere and disconnect from everything, but where do we go as right now it’s everywhere? I want to yell out at the top
I Can’t Decide
So I started this blog to be more of a personal blog. Shortly after I decided, hey maybe I can make this into much more and put my own personal stuff more to the side after all who wants to read that. Now I am back into wanting to make it more of a personal
How Terry and I Met
A lot of things had to go right for us to meet. So let’s start in the year 2007 I had been living in San Diego where I was raised. Had just recently got a divorce from my husband of almost 7 years. Placed a few profiles online one included yahoo personals. That is when
When I Discovered Myself
I wish I could remember the day but I can tell you the year, it was 1997. This is when I discovered that I liked women for more then just friends. I was married to my first husband (on my third and final marriage with my Wife Terry). I spent the entire day with a
Heatherisms
Ok so you want to hear some funny things from my past? You’ve heard of Trumpisms? Now I bring you, Heatherisms. These are three of the most popular and most well known phrases I have said in my past to my family. The ones my family will never let down. The ones that are brought
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Taken Away
Today I am taking it back to November 10, 1982… Our family was going through some ruff times and had to live at a campground called “Campland on the Bay”. Actually it isn’t that bad of a place (at least to me as a young kid), it has little parks with playgrounds for us to
Our Wedding Music
I have to admit, my wife came up with a great list of songs for our wedding, yes of course I added a few songs in. However she already had a great list so I didn’t have to give to much of my input. As you can probably tell by our selection of songs, we
Our Wedding Vows
We did it back on March 19, 2016. We didn’t share our vows that we had written for each other until we stood there on the beautiful beach of Monterey, CA But yet they compliment each other so well as if we had planned it. I love every word said Terry, I have always dreamed
Where I Came From
Lets look back at the most horrific experience of my life so far…And as a heads up I am not looking for any sympathy WARNING this might be a little too much for some… I was born in San Francisco, CA. I have a sister named Jennifer who was born on my 5th birthday, talk