I am a part of a few LGBTQ Marriage Groups on Facebook. And time to to time there is a anonymous question posted, the user sends a message to one of the admins of the group and the admin post the question in the group as a “Anonymous Post”. Some of the post I see
Losing a Best Friend
Back in July my friend Nyia got diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. It was a hard thing to accept, but I figured she is a strong willed woman and she will make it through. Last Tuesday, I found out that she was given just days to live. I rushed to the hospital to spend some time
Love is Insanity
I was watching “Criminal Minds” last night S2 E13, the suspect (or the un-sub as they call them) says “Love is Insanity, just the good kind.” For the most part the “just the good kind” is true” however we all know that we can sometimes have those Love Hate Relationships. If being in love is
Five Love Languages
Hard to believe that up till a few years ago that I, the self proclaimed “Queen of the Foo” never heard of “The 5 Love Languages.” My wife mentioned it one day and it totally makes since to me on how it would work and help. What is it? The Five Love Languages: How to
Friend Searching on Dating Apps?
A Facebook friend of mine writes a post last night, looking for ideas to get over a broken heart. I left a comment, asking what happened. Shortly after I received a message, saying that they (my friend) downloaded a “location-based social networking and online dating application.” The reason for the download? They were looking for
Love is a Drug
I have a friend of mine going through some things right now with her S.O.(significant other). I have been trying to help her, trying to talk them through possible solutions. But it seems that maybe their “grass” died prematurely, as they have only been together for 18 months. That it may be time for her
Water Your Own Grass!
People are never satisfied with their own situation; they always think others have it better. I can say that I have been found guilty of this in past relationships. However I have discovered if you water your own grass, it can help it to stay green. Stop being worried about what others have, and worry
Passive Aggressive
Passive Aggressive: of or denoting a type of behavior or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of others and an avoidance of direct confrontation, as in procrastinating, pouting, or misplacing important materials. Okay we have all been guilty of doing this at some level and at some point in our lives, after all
Spectaphile – Attraction to Those with Glasses
I was sitting here cleaning my glasses, trying to think of what to write about today. When I thought about my attraction to those who wears glasses. Their has to be a name for it I thought, after all their is a name for everything, such as Sapiosexual (yep that is me too). I am
Love is Patient, Love is Kind
I’m a believer of a God, but not so much of the Bible or any organized religion. However I do love this verse from 1 Corinthians 13. 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it
Thank You to my Ex’s
When we break up with someone its generally a very sad moment in our lives. After all no one wants their heart to be broken. God knows I have had my share of heartbreak with two divorces and countless boyfriends / girlfriends in my past. I am almost confident that the reasoning for my
First Year Anniversary Gifts
So while most people know that the traditional first year anniversary gift to give is paper. I’m sure a lot of people don’t know what kind of gift to give for it to follow under that tradition. It’s not like you want to give them a ream of printer paper right? First let’s talk about