I’m a believer of a God, but not so much of the Bible or any organized religion. However I do love this verse from 1 Corinthians 13. 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it
The Shape of our Heart
We all know that the the shape of our heart (the organ), looks nothing how we all draw a heart when we associate it with love. So how did the heart we associate with love get it’s shape. I wanted to find out so here are a few ideas I found during my research… Idea
Thank You to my Ex’s
When we break up with someone its generally a very sad moment in our lives. After all no one wants their heart to be broken. God knows I have had my share of heartbreak with two divorces and countless boyfriends / girlfriends in my past. I am almost confident that the reasoning for my
How Terry and I Met
A lot of things had to go right for us to meet. So let’s start in the year 2007 I had been living in San Diego where I was raised. Had just recently got a divorce from my husband of almost 7 years. Placed a few profiles online one included yahoo personals. That is when
Kenny Lattimore – For You
I realized today it had been a moment since I shared some of my favorite music. This is my favorite prelude song that we choose for our wedding. It brings such a big smile to my face when I hear it thinking of how perfect our day was. I loved when I got to see
When I Discovered Myself
I wish I could remember the day but I can tell you the year, it was 1997. This is when I discovered that I liked women for more then just friends. I was married to my first husband (on my third and final marriage with my Wife Terry). I spent the entire day with a
Favorite Childhood Foods
So I was sitting down when I decided I wanted a good ole BP&J when I thought… What are your favorite childhood foods? And do you still eat them as an adult? And not only that, do they bring memories up while eating them. I know I surely do, one of the reasons is because
First Year Anniversary Gifts
So while most people know that the traditional first year anniversary gift to give is paper. I’m sure a lot of people don’t know what kind of gift to give for it to follow under that tradition. It’s not like you want to give them a ream of printer paper right? First let’s talk about
Heatherisms
Ok so you want to hear some funny things from my past? You’ve heard of Trumpisms? Now I bring you, Heatherisms. These are three of the most popular and most well known phrases I have said in my past to my family. The ones my family will never let down. The ones that are brought
My Experience with Secured Credit Cards
Secured credit cards are similar to regular credit cards, however they require a cash deposit and are primarily used to help borrowers build or rebuild their credit. Your credit limit on your secured card is generally equal to the amount of the deposit you provided, ($200 deposit = $200 credit limit). If you have a
Sapiosexual – What is it?
I just recently came across a meme I shared a few years back in my Facebook memories. It was simply the definition of a Sapiosexual. I never knew back then there was such a term. However I always knew I was. What is a Sapiosexialty? Defined as: Noun: A person who is sexually attracted to
Social Anxiety Disorder
I have had this problem for a very long time. About 10 years ago is when I found out that there is actually a name for this problem, which is Social Anxiety Disorder or Social Phobia. What is Social Anxiety Disorder? Social anxiety disorder aka Social Phobia, is diagnosed when people become overwhelmingly anxious and