I was watching “Criminal Minds” last night S2 E13, the suspect (or the un-sub as they call them) says “Love is Insanity, just the good kind.” For the most part the “just the good kind” is true” however we all know that we can sometimes have those Love Hate Relationships. If being in love is
Five Love Languages
Hard to believe that up till a few years ago that I, the self proclaimed “Queen of the Foo” never heard of “The 5 Love Languages.” My wife mentioned it one day and it totally makes since to me on how it would work and help. What is it? The Five Love Languages: How to
Love is a Drug
I have a friend of mine going through some things right now with her S.O.(significant other). I have been trying to help her, trying to talk them through possible solutions. But it seems that maybe their “grass” died prematurely, as they have only been together for 18 months. That it may be time for her
Water Your Own Grass!
People are never satisfied with their own situation; they always think others have it better. I can say that I have been found guilty of this in past relationships. However I have discovered if you water your own grass, it can help it to stay green. Stop being worried about what others have, and worry
When I Found You
This was an old Facebook I posted to Terry years ago that came up in my memories today, and felt I should share it here too… I used to dream that someday I might find a lover who would be tender, kind, and passionate… I used to dream that someone whose touch would awaken my
My Love for Music
I had a fellow blogger ask me, “You love you some music don’t you?” The answer is yes, and I mean I really LOVE it. Until recently, I thought everyone felt the same way. For some unfortunately it’s just sound. I found this quote a while ago and it’s so fitting for me. “The only
The Shape of our Heart
We all know that the the shape of our heart (the organ), looks nothing how we all draw a heart when we associate it with love. So how did the heart we associate with love get it’s shape. I wanted to find out so here are a few ideas I found during my research… Idea
Thank You to my Ex’s
When we break up with someone its generally a very sad moment in our lives. After all no one wants their heart to be broken. God knows I have had my share of heartbreak with two divorces and countless boyfriends / girlfriends in my past. I am almost confident that the reasoning for my
How Terry and I Met
A lot of things had to go right for us to meet. So let’s start in the year 2007 I had been living in San Diego where I was raised. Had just recently got a divorce from my husband of almost 7 years. Placed a few profiles online one included yahoo personals. That is when
Saying I love you
How soon is too soon, to tell someone you love them? When should you tell the other person those magic words? I think saying “I love you” is a very personal experience, and every person has their own different time frame for saying it. Some people say it right away with a new person, some
Love Hate Relationships
Love-hate relationships to me are like an addiction to a drug. Your family and friends think your crazy for doing it. You want to quit because you know it’s bad for you (for what ever reason). However you find yourself coming back for more and more no matter what, because you love the short term
Aretha Franklin – How Long I’ve Been Waiting
This song was released in 2011, I heard it for the first time during the process of getting to know Terry. It just seemed to fit. I wanted it to be played at our wedding, however it wasn’t available for download on itunes. May Ms Aretha Franklin forever rest in peace The Lyrics: My darling,